Passing Time

Humans are here on this Globe in order to just pass time. We are no different than the animals but just another species of animals who is discovering something and repeating it – in the process we are trying to find a purpose to our life. We have energy within us that SOUL is generating and we have to dispense it – in order to dispense and pass time; we have our basic need to fulfill hunger of stomach – hence our mind works to gather food around that is needed to stay alive and going…

We striving harder than other animals because of our thought processes and ability to develop the scripting language – as we can now write and read …Our memories are growing just because of this, or should I say we are discovering it? It already exists its just we don’t know and hence searching all over the place… Some researchers claim that we are just using about 5% of our brain so far…It could be true – I’m not sure.

Our main functions are (in crude hindi language - Khana, Peena, Hagna, Mutana aur Sona - That is it!!!)

1. Being awake/energetic to gather food; Breathing / Eating / Drinking (exmaple: air, food, water)
2. Bowel Movement / Pass out waste out of Body (Example: Pee-Pee and Potty)
3. Sleeping (Example: Nap or sleep)

If any of the above function stops – you can not live. Else you can live and pass time until the day when your Journey ends. So my only Message is that if you know that you just have to pass time - Enjoy it; Experience the happiness, Joy; This can easily be done once you discover self.

Formation of Human Body and motion of mind (Emotions)

Our parent’s genes gives us a basic body structure and as we grow our mind and how we think, our thought process, our ability to remember, the memory acts as the input to create an output - "a human body". Eventually each one of us lives iwth the body; I beleive it is on lease for the lifetime. Inputs are the most important and how we interpret and develop ourselves, hence the mindset is very important in human life. Each of us create our own mindset that is so complete and whole we are created from day one!!! We are the molder of our own shape; our own external appearance, behavior and eventually how we are going “to feel, and live”.

It is an infinite loop that we live in – flow of moments is continuous and we take it iteratively, this gives us synergetic motion and that is what we are going through – just plain and simple… Using this energy provided by the invisible source called “soul” to keep us moving…There is not a single moment when that motion stops. If this happens – you are dead.

Alignment and discovery of happiness

The important key for any living being in this life is to understand above phenomenon and then be aligned to that motion – in a synergic and harmonious way. It is as simple as walking, running or eating food, but the problem is that we don’t focus on these things in our busy life – “so called busy life” and then keep blaming life; remain always unsatisfied. But if you give little bit of time – I guarantee that you will feel fully satisfied and happy even though there will be absolutely no change at all.

No! You don’t need to be millionaire to be happy…and no, no need of burning yourself to be happy…Absolutely not!! It’s a thought process or a mindset (real world, internal) that needs a change to feel happy – not car, house or millions of dollars!!! (Virtual World, external) And if you don’t realize it – May God Bless you!!! I’ll see you around when you are ready.

And yes, I keep repeating that “Time is not money and Money is not life” also “Money is related to Misery and not much with happiness”. 

Thought process of Software Engineer for the Life - 'Living being' is an Object!

If I have think like a software engineer – then our cycle of hunger and its fulfillment is like an infinite loop and it can only exist with error code 0 (natural death) or 1 (unfortunate death) when we die (motion stops!) – What a beautiful program God created? Think like… We are just objects that are created when that program is run…and this object (human/living being) has some set of properties/behavior when set of frequencies are generated (either self created or reaction to external frequencies).

Belief, Love and Respect - By the first Globezen (Vishal Chaturvedi) 

Mind and Motions = Emotions

Mind / Happiness and Love

Imagine that our mind is like a special liquid poured in bowl and this liquid has a very special special property to create wave like motion; it can also fire up in flames occasionally. Some mysterious energy that can react to a internal thought process quickly in order to create a motion (imagine a sine wave of a sound; up and down motion or a shape created by a flame.. ) and also able to react to the frequency generated around you. So this liquid reacts to internal and external frequencies creating motions.. these motions are nothing but your Emotions...Emotions create feelings...that is experienced by your mind and soul - and that is real World...(more in other blogs on real world)

If you can understand that so called “haphazard” (up and down) motions of that special liquid, generating emotions and how it reacts to internal thought process and external frequencies – you can control it and then align it to whatever emotions you want to create and feel.

Now, let me clarify that motion is not haphazard but its very synergetic motion. It just feels haphazard because we just don’t know what is it? and why and how it is happening? If you know it (only after the self discovery process) – then you create a state of equilibrium in every stage of that motion by aligning to it. And you got yourself “happiness for ever”, a state of bliss where you feel in control, feel peaceful and energetic, synergetic and harmonious to nature, no rush, no questions, no pursuits, its all plain simple road of life from here on. It helps understand the context to human life and time and so called purpose of life; a meaning of a moment; meaning of a death and living; why we are here and what are we doing here...Why people call Life as a Journey... It all makes absolute sense.

Of-course it my version and my way of thinking – yours may differ…But I believe that every one of us going to land up at the same place of “Self-realization” – some are going to be able to do sooner than others…We all meet at the same place…See you around.


Hence happiness lives within. No one can make you happy and you can not make anyone happy. You can not be anyone else’s self. It is just unnatural. Although you can please others and so as others can please you; but it needs to be repeated… unless someone can do it, just by being his own self; such as he/she is just like to be as he/she is doing it all times and if that pleases you then you are discovering happiness. For example- Kid's blabbering …

I firmly believe you will like someone as he/she as is.. and you will be able to accept as she/he as is... No more changes required. Then and only then you can truly appreciate the beauty of this nature - you are one step closure to love and beautiful heaven that you are creating using your perceptions...This also brings a unique beauty in diversity; creating a bond between the two humans… that is Love. Those two humans are purely just being self. When you have this situation - there are no compromises; its all fits right in. No more pursuits... Two of them may be just like to keep looking at each other for hours and they just love it, they don't realize where the time passed etc. The beauty is that all this going on - when there is absolutely nothing extraordinary there...that is Love...

Hence I say love can only happen with people who are being self…only self. Living just the way they like it to be…

It is absolutely amazing “the completeness” and "wholeness" of each of you. It is beyond words; I just don't think that we have developed so much yet to be able to explicitly understand each state of those emotions or create words for it .. so just unable to write such emotions - at least I don't have the words for it… I don’t know whether you can understand what I just wrote and connect to my thought process – It just seems impossible when two whole and complete objects (you and me) are trying to create the same exact thought process.. It’s just not possible; I guess. Because I’m absolutely unique and special and so as you. But I’m sure you are building some imagination in your mind while reading this; your perception is playing a role; you may like it or may not…but it is absolutely fantastic.. Isn’t it? The beauty to read, write and imagine...

And that is why I can’t explain the creation of me; hence I say - I’m a miracle just like each of you reading...

'Change' - Does it hurt? Do you notice it?

Few things I wrote last week and wish to share.. I feel so great when I write these.. Feeling which is really out of the World...I just can't explain in words...Let the silence speak to you...

"Synergistic motion is all there in this Universe.Nothing can exist without it."

"Significant motion is termed as Change hence it is inevitable."

The most imp...

"Change is relative to those who have memories; It is only felt by those who are not aligned to it."

I came home and did a small experiement.. I'm just focused to explain the "alignment to the change"

My son was doing a homework .. I asked him a pencil and kept it on one corner of the table, and then I picked it and moved to another corner of the table; I asked - Did the pencil's position change? He said "yes, Daddy!!"

I took the pencil held it to his chest...and then I asked him to move from one corner to another (same position) - I asked Did the pencil's position change?  "No, Daddy", he said. But in fact the pencil was in the same position as it was in the first step but it was aligned to him.. and he didn't feel a thing.. It is that simple..

When you are living everyday in your home with you kid. you don't realize the change he is going through because its so subtle - but ask someone who visited your home after an year or so.. he will feel the change... sometime he will like and sometimes not..

Know it... that it is a ever changing World...there is motion...without that nothing can exist...and then enjoy every moment of you life as it is.. Once passed... create a memory and move on.. next moment is welcoming you with whole heart... Align yourself to the change...Enjoy your moment with whoever is around..Connect to Soul... that is real.. Body is virtual...Cherish the memories... don't ask them to do more than they are suppose to do it...


If you feel the pain from the change - It means that you are stuck....and that is why it pains...Know it that you are going to grow old and its happening every moment.. there is absolutely nothing wrong with it...Enjoy it...Its a beautiful change....Mind is growing although the body is weakning.. But what really matters is the MIND...

Things are going to change.. because that motion is needed... so live in a moment.. align to that moment.. you can't feel the change... if you are a kid - Enjoy the childhood.. because you won't have those moments ever again in your life...however hard you might be willing to work for it...For that matter every stage of this life.

Life is function of Time not Money or anything else...Just time!

"Learn to live a lifetime in a moment otherwise a lifetime won't be enough to live a moment."

Belief, Love and Respect...
-Globezen.

Love and Guilt - inbuilt morale police!!!

Those who live a normal life usually either unknowingly or knowingly have developed "love" and "guilt" within them and that keeps them in check, keeps them out of trouble from becoming an exception where external enforcement agencies have to react to it by using "law and order" stick.

Even today most the law enforcement agencies are working on the exceptions only and I hope human race can remain this way in future. The situation on this Globe is getting worrisome day by day but its not yet out of control. I believe every human is very smart and will react to other natural forces as the need arises...

I'm no scholar and won't pretend but I have done a deep analysis (from my pespective) - every human being is selfish... and no one can change it.. this is how he is built naturally... what I understand that being GOOD selfish is the key here... we need to reach to a state of equilibrium to be a human again...we are turning into machines with so many rules and regulations, process and systems - beliefs... we can create billions of it...more and more rules and regulations..... and we have it in India and other countries but there is no enforcement. We don't need more rules/regulations but rather we need to relax a bit, we need to give time to folks to reach to the "core" of human, "SELF" and ask them to look inside; give them time to think - Discover self.

We are running so fast in our lives.. that we no longer recognize ourselves... the problem is not in a role anymore that we are playing in our lifes.. problem remains and seen in the human mindset itself now... and once the mindset is skewed - the life no longer runs smoothly...problems are generated/created from within; that human can no longer do ANY ROLE effectively... whateven it could be!!!


when I say 'role' - role of politician, salaried middle class; role of CEO.. .at the end of the day - they are 2 legged/2 hand - one mind human (created that way) but now no longer behaving as humans..

if you see a problem - proably its the human who is creating a problem!!! that is not his mistake any more... He doesn't know who he is anymore!!! and if a human doesn't know he is made of feelings/emotions - means he doesn't know that he is human! then how can he understand someone else... the guy who is standing next to him? Its unnatural... just impossible task for him... That is why I keep repeating that we need to be SELF first.. and feel the Love and guilt within is the best answer that knows how to respect everything around... there is no better police in this whole world than developing 'love' and 'guilt' within - once human understands it.. he is a police of himself.. he doesn't need no one to tell him what is right or wrong. 

Taking example of India, since I know. With Billion people in India... if you don't create this morale police within one... and if we to create "the want" of having an external rules/regulations and police force... you will need to ask every family in India to send their son/daughter to an enforcement agency of some kind...

In brief - no stats that can prove with but this is what I know..
but lets review...

Out of 1 billion people in India - 70% of the people are doing agriculture -
so you have only 300 million people who can do the job in enforcement agency...
and by the looks of it.. if we want to create a good enforcement angency .. then we will need 10% of the people in enforcement agency.. that is 1 in every 3...

what are your thoughts?

I personally don't believe in external forces - I believe in 'Respect' of law and order of the land from within.

The places where crime rate is low...or corruption is low...the first thing is that people are happy, content... and that is the KEY... there are some places in India where no door is locked... same thing in Canada and Sweden...

I created a quote

"No force is as powerful as Love and Guilt."- both only can be felt when one is SELF... who knows he is a human - made of feelings/emotions....

Well it doesn't mean that we shouldn't have any law and order enforcement agency..and I'm not saying so!!! It should be there but only to take care of the exceptions... But if the exceptions becomes the norm... we are in BIG trouble... we got to find the solutions somewhere else...because the problems that we are thinking may not be the problem, it might be somewhere else...
I believe - Most complex problems have one of the simplest solutions...

Belief, Love and Respect.
-Globezen.

6.9 Billion Worlds on our Globe!

Why 6.9 Billion Worlds when we all live on the same Globe - Earth?
In short – that is the total human population on this Globe. One Human, One Mind and Soul = One World.

Everyone one of us has its own world created by their beliefs, thoughts, and perceptions, places he dwells, society/family he belongs and – Each World is very special and unique and there is no other World exists that is exactly same as you created within your own mind. Take an example - Even though there are 5 members in the family and they live in the same house – the World in which each of them is living is still unique and no other family members has the exact same World within them – and that why we have so much diversity in this World. Every one of us has unique thought process … every one of us is so special…And hence – you can’t compare your life with any other – because there is none who you can compare against…. Your every moment that you spend in your own World is so different than your own brother or sister that lives in the same house that you can’t even compare those moments.. so forget about comparing your situations with anyone else in your class, office or any other place that comes in your mind. You are the King of your World and you are whole…


Diversity of each World is what makes this Globe Beautiful… Now the amazing thing is that with 6.9 Billion worlds roaming around on this Globe – with so much diversity … Everyone of us has the same feelings as others… the events that triggers that feeling/emotion may differ from person to person… such as in my World I may feel happy by just observing at the Bird and his hopping on two legs while trying to nibble and in your case if could be that you feel happy by looking at your Son giggling…(That makes me happy too ;) – or let us take another example – A cricket/Baseball match is won by the team “A” and team “B” is defeated by 1 run – for the members of team ‘A’ and those who support that team is a moment of triumph – feeling pleased .. But the other team ‘B’ is feeling sad – so at the same moment of time – both have triggered the different feelings – but if you deeply look at it each of a human is having their own moment in their own World and there is nothing in common at a particular time…other than the time itself, some are excited but at different levels and some are feeling sad at different levels…Although thousands of people watching a moment in a stadium or at home in TV – the feelings that are experienced at that moment is similar but looking further deep – they are different because of the Unique and Special World each of us created within us and that is where we are living and experiencing that moment and it becomes our feelings based on our beliefs, thoughts, surrounding, mindset, thought process – PERCEPTION.

If you change the perceptions; the world will change…
if you change the beliefs, the world will change..
if you change the mindset – the world will change…

So your World exists within you and you and ONLY YOU live in it – No one else! You are the creator of your own World – change is as you like… It’s your choice. Be self, reach to a state of equilibrium and that world will turn into Heaven – it’s beautiful. Your heaven is right here; right now; not in tomorrow – don’t hope to build it – work on building now and you will start realizing it today. Live like this is your last day on this Globe.

Learn to live a lifetime in a moment, otherwise a lifetime won’t be enough to live a moment. There is no hell/heaven after your death – you deal all here – this is the heaven!!! This is it!!!

But If you try to be ‘otherself’ (definitions in my other blogs) you will transition into hell and that’s when the life sucks…very simple reason to it… you are not living in your own World that you created; your soul, mind and Body is losing the state of equilibrium. You are allowing others to influence your World – you started compromising, procrastinate, looking at others more than your own self, you started to go away from your core – the self. Your choices are no longer yours!!! And at that time – unhappiness comes in… because otherself is pulling you away…But yes, there is choice you make. The only thing you can do is … Accept if you really want to do that and go into World of others… Let me warn you – it’s the most daunting task you will doing in your life; the transition won’t be easy – but if that is what your choice is and wants are then GO FOR IT!! But Its unnatural and so far no one succeeded – But Heh!! Doesn’t mean that you can’t do that.. Try it! May be you can make it work and it will work for you… make a choice – brainwash your own self and be a different person all together – the half way in life, doesn’t work. Don’t look for options… Keep one thought process; no options please… because at a given time, you can create only one World within and live in it. That is how you can reach to a state of equilibrium… that is happiness…feel in Control.

Another point – a very important one - the feelings/emotions that each of us experience are exactly same (but yes, on different events/times) because of our unique World that each of us live in. Hence we understand when someone says that he is feeling ‘happy, sad, joyful, exciting… etc.’ because we have felt once in your lifetime….

Hence I say that I cannot make anyone happy – it’s unnatural-because I don’t know how to enter anyone’s World and change things for him… He has to discover, find happiness by his own self.
This make us whole and complete – we lack nothing.

You can create a soul – you can give a life, you can create a body – what other proofs do you want??? You are a miracle!!! You are part of this creation and you are the creator. God lives within.

Have a happy life!!!

Key to my Life!

<This was written one fine day; after experiencing many beautiful mornings being in solitude!>

Today I'm feeling Joyful for absolutely no reason...I woke up at 4:30 AM and this was the case yesterday too and it happens quite frequently now that I'm feeling happy for no reason; there is nothing changed that I'm noticing... Before my thoughts vanish or my mind starts changing it - let me write it...

I know one thing very well now... that the answers to every question that I have; is within me; I'm whole...I have stopped searching outside for it...no more pursuit... no more blames... instead of that "Believe" and that is why Belief is my one of the fundamentals for my life - a Globezen - and I know the truth on that too..Belief is nothing but a perceived truth and not the truth itself...

This is the Key....key is in knowing it... Please don't try to know just after reading this blog...I'm no spiritual man...I'm not a religious man. Please don't do it because it works for me... I can just write what I feel... It may or may not work for you...

One thing I understood that there is nowhere to go; no one can be my own self, I have created my own world and no one in this Universe sees things in my world the way I see it, no one can enter it; It is just unnatural...because I'm whole and complete. I just felt in control...

It doesn't mean that I don't live like I used to..I'm doing exactly the same thing that I did 10 years back... I do go to work each day, play with my Son, be with my wife and fight with her; spend time with my pets, talk to my parents and relatives in India.. blog...write, eat, watch TV(not much though). Everything is pretty much same, virtually - but all has changed within me, the World is completely changed...the context and perception is changed...

Its a beautiful World - A Heaven.. Right Here, Right Now!! I appreciate what I have and don't hope much from tomorrow..I'm happy today!!!

I know if I could do it so much so far... I'll be all right. I'll be able to do all things possible as long as I have my mind, body and soul with me...

Everyone of us have created our own World within each of us...we create it with our beliefs (perceived truth) and that becomes our World... using perception... I call it "peer to peer" connection...everyone is whole and well balanced, all connected.. Floating effortlessly...

Heaven!!! a beautiful world we live - Wow!!! God is with me...

Amazing ....

Changing behavior of human life!

Let me talk about the Nature of animals first and then we will look at humans...

Animals/Nature

In this globe there are millions of species that are living and go through a cycle of life where one takes birth and dies at some point; During the time spent between birth and Death which is life – they go though many stages of life, in every phase there is a state that everyone is trying to acquire to lead a comfortable life. Take an example of a bird who is first fed by parents with unconditional love and then one day bird will fly away to start his own family; he is going through the same cycles his parents did, he will create a nest using one strand at a time tirelessly probably being really happy, will feed his own kids; enjoy the time spent in his life and then die one day. This cycle continues; I don’t see any bird storing food or for that matter anything for his kids or their grand kids; Kids grow and find their own food and live their own life. For that matter – nature has predefined seasons and some animals have an ability to store food for a season in order to hibernate during the harsh winter but that is about for one season only. This nature is so vast and so diverse with millions of colors and different species – all somehow find synergies and harmony even if their life cycle depends on munching on each other. Big fish eats small fish and the life cycle continues; you can see big fish swimming with small fish with synergy when his stomach is full. The need is been fulfilled; after that it really doesn’t harm anyone until he is hungry again. During this time it reaches to a state of equilibrium and finds synergies with other fishes; Nature balances this very effectively and have done so far. Another example of Lion and deer; Lion would kill a deer to eat but once stomach’s hunger is fulfilled, deer roaming in front of him would not bother him. He shall not harm that deer until hungry again. This life cycle is very well balanced and has synergies/harmony in them.


Imagine if Big fish would kill for fun or for that matter to feed his kids or Lion keeps killing and turns into ONLY killing machine for all 24 hours it just keep killing…Will it work? Will the cycle continue? Will the Nature survive or for that matter will the Lion survive after some time? After some time he won’t have a food for himself.

The most important difference between animals and humans is that none of the animals can create their own food; they find it from the nature. But humans have developed the ability to create food. We can farm and recreate food for our life cycle to continue – This is one of the major distinction from animals to humans.


Human

Now let’s take an example of Human – we call ourselves a super special species, best of the breed that has the biggest brain of all. Human is a beautiful creature but I think lately since last 2500 years or so we are in the rampant state where we are discovering the greed (hunger of the brain) and need based (hunger of stomach) requirements are being overtaken by the greed based activities since the Market based economy (new belief system) was developed and adapted by humans…

Human race earlier just had a need of ‘food’; and then came ‘shelter’ as he could make a hut to live and then came ‘clothes’ and now we have so many needs and unlimited greed to live a life in 21st century. During the earlier civilization of human race; human exchanged products itself; so if one used to create earthen pots; he would exchange the with the needy of pots for food. This cycle continued and at those times people lived for needs; they just thought of their own family; did the best what liked; listened to the human body and its needs and worked on it. Art was the main pass time and focus for many that lead to creativity and imagination. I treat imagination, creativity is real thing and very powerful ingredient to feel happy. Many sculptures that you see even today on this Globe were made during that time. I think that was best time for human mankind; people lived in real world just before the Market based Economy belief system was created. Kamasutra was written during that time – so why do we find it offending today? When I sit today and imagine that it was an Indian culture that created Kamasutra – it just seems impossible when I look at the so called conservative people around…This is the same place where now we have riots if someone expresses love in public places.

I certainly don’t mean that we need to start behaving as we used to 2500 year ago in public; it is not suitable now; but let’s make an attempt to understand the thought process from those days and listen within to recognize those basic needs.

Why can’t culture adapt to the basic needs of the human life; In temples we see an art that today human just thinks as vulgar but still appreciate sculptures – I think we have come long way and things have changed slowly in last 2500 year; Changing traditions, cultural values and religious faith has kept us away from our own self. We are looking outside more than inside of human. We need to listen to within again and understand whether what we are doing today is the right way that will help us lead a happy life and can we continue that unwind of the twist that we have in life. Do you understand the difference between real and virtual world? I have defined them – its twisted, and that is something we need to untwist..

I think recognizing those two worlds is very very important lead a happy and balanced life.

In Hinduism there are four stages of life “1. Dharma, 2. Artha, 3. Kama and 4. Moksha” If a human could understand these things 5000 years ago – why a human can’t do that today? It is really amazing to know that human did understand life so well thousands of years ago when we did not have any technology around; Today in the world of science – when I look at human he seems to be so backwards in terms of ‘Emotional Life’…

- The Virtual/outer world may be shining but the our real/inner world to is being lost every moment in the name of so called progress…Humans must recognize this and act now… else …

Time is not money; Money is not life.

Money is all to do with Misery and not much to do with the Happiness.

Money can enable one to avoid the misery but not necessary that he/she shall will feel real happiness in life after hoarding a lot of money. So money is important but its not the true wealth in anyone's life.

I have read and heard so many times so far in my life that "Time is Money" so don't waste it; I get the "wasting" part it but I don't get the relationship with Money. Most of the people realize after earning a lot of money in their life-time that they wasted whole life earning only money. What a twist? I don't mean to demonize the money, in my culture, money is respected and represents one form of God.

For most of the people it already too late and then they turn to philanthropy, helping others, doing charity... for what? probably to save some tax money- just kidding! At times real attempts are made by those humans to fill the emptiness within by doing charities but it doesn't seem to help then they go on a therapy, yoga, pursue spiritual paths. Then too they feel that something is missing and unfortunately, Yes! not just something - Everything is missing. Time is Gone!
Life is made up of 'time' and once it is gone, you won't be able to get it back however hard you may be willing to work for it. So if one just wants to replace the time with money by disrespecting everything around; the choice is clear; Life is slipping away and in return you are building emptiness within. Life is made of real human feelings and Emotions that one can not see or touch but can be felt immensely and so is the time. (For the definition of real and virtual - Read below on blog - "What is Real and What is Virtual?")

Now is that smart way to lead a life? If you ask me .. its not! Why do I say so? because life is beautifully twisted and I have come to recognize it.

I see big fortune profitable companies building the charitable foundations to do charity - I hate to see advertisement of such companies on the TV; trying to show people that they are helping the mankind. But lets step back a bit and think, aren't these are the very same companies who are looting and sucking peoples' life in the first place in the name of business and then donating some percent to charities from their profits; boasting about their kindness and help to Humanity. If they really want to help the Humanity - I respectfully request, please keep the cost of the products reasonable and charge only the amount that is needed to take care for the business and personal needs or open a non profit organizations only. This way we employ people, produce products and services and help the Humanity.

Sometimes a BIG wave of thoughts come in my mind and I think I wish I had a magic wand that I could have waved to bring all such people's senses and change the definition of doing business where - people are charged reasonable for the products at all times just to fulfill the needs and not the greed. I know businesses are created for profits but those profits must remain reasonable;

To earn money - one always pretended to be someone else who he/she is not in order to earn money you copied what (so called) successful people do, learned their habits - Now the real "self" is lost; one can never be happy when he/she is not being "self" - one shall always feel empty if he/she not self - hence I say virtual world can hardly give you happiness... To be happy and feel the peace, one shall be self....

Being 'self' is the best way to live life, if you could earn enough money being 'self' in order to take care of needs; there is nothing like it. You are in heaven right now; Its right here. Realize it.

To feel real happiness - "work like you don't need money" :) I know its absurd but this is the ONLY way you can feel happiness in the work endeavors.

If you are reading this blog. Are you earning money? No! then - why do you do it? because you like to ... its a way of relaxation; conversations although a virtual one on the internet; Human is a social animal and all they do all along their life is build relationships; "Relationship" the most important thing in your life; Believe me on this one! Best relationship is with the God, where you do all the talking, and He is always listening!!! :) - we all are connected.

You can't get happiness by spending money or earning just money... Most probably happiness is only found when MONEY is not related. Usually happiness lives within but money does not!.

No one can make you happy or sad, its all within you.

Take time to relax; it is important for your life, health and even to get wealth - because this time that is passed is never coming back however hard you may be willing to work for it; You are on a one way irreversible journey of life. So enjoy every moment, every stage of you life while it lasts, its beautiful. Every moments greets you and welcomes you with a feeling of happiness and peace or at least gives you a unique experience that is just made for you.

As long as "Food (roti), cloths (kapada) and shelter (makaan)" (3 basic needs of human) are fulfilled - after that money doesn't give you anything more. Earn money enough to fulfill your needs after that spend your time what you really like to do it, spend time with your family; or just relaxing - experiencing the bliss in solitude. But yes, money is important, I do work for Money to lead a comfortable life. If you don't earn money - misery will find a way to your life quickly; because we now live in a virtual world; we can't leave it; but lets recognize it and try to balance the real and virtual world.

So, Lets not compare life with money. Its not the the right way of leading life...

"Time is not Money" and "Money is not Life" - That is what I understand now -

For those who love and carry an unending zeal to earn money by disrespecting everything around, not being "Self" thinking that money is going to solve all problems and make them happy; peaceful as they perceive - I respectfully say, good luck to you - I know you are on the journey into the virtual world - unfortunately the regret matrix will never be zero for you. In other words - one can never feel happy; But I can say one thing, that thing you are calling "happiness" is basically "a pleasure" that needs to be repeated over and over again and the pursuit goes on...

For happiness - there is NO pursuit - you either happy or you are not. Its a in present state - no past or no future. Happiness is a matter of 'no effort'.

By Globezen.

What is Real and What is Virtual?

I have created two worlds for me, one is real world and another is virtual. The real happiness and peace can only be found in the real world. Real world is made with real things. Now I'm going to try to define Real and Virtual but those are exactly opposite that you may think or know. And hence I say - "Life is beautifully twisted" - What one thinks is real is not real, its virtual and virtual things can never give you real happiness.

So I define as follows (read slowly below - its bit confusing in first read)

"Things you can not touch or see but feel immensely is Real and the things that you can't feel without touching or seeing is Virtual."

Real things don't die, such as Love, imagination, belief, happiness - it lives on forever although you can not see or touch but you can feel it immensely. Feelings are real, Mind and Soul is real, you can not see but without a soul your Body is nothing; it’s of no use. So when you truly love - you love the 'soul' of a body and not the Body itself. The connection you make it eternal, 'soul to soul'. Hence it is said that "Beauty is in the eyes of beholder" because beholder always looks beyond what others can see. Hence I feel that "Love is beyond all imaginations". 

Please do not read this with the perspective of "Practical World", I don't think one can ever reach "within" through this path; In practical world, we are defeating/killing/suppressing our own human values and turning into machines (virtual) that we created from our own imagination (real). Untwist this practical life and be a human again.

I can explain with many examples- to begin let's take one - when a virtual thing (example: a car or a bike) that you possess; as soon as it gets old/age you tend to replace it by another or a new thing; that transition is fairly easy with money and probably may give you a pleasure again once it is renewed and this cycle will continue. Let's take another example that you love someone and unfortunately she/he met with an accident; his body has got scars now, but your love is going grow more and that 'someone' becomes far more special and irreplaceable; because you are connected with real thing - a soul, an eternal and not the body. Body ages but the soul does not. 

This is a world of oneself; and everyone creates it, 'within' them and they live in them, what I mean is the world of relationships; its so unique and special; no one in this World is as unique as you are! Example - Parents to Kids, Mother to Son - that relationship can not be seen or touched but felt immensily. Can a mother ever divorce her own son? I have never heard and seen anywhere in the World - because that is a REAL/Natural thing; a soul to soul connection. Irrespective of whatever Son may do, for mother the Son still has that beautiful innocence that only she knows and happy beyond anyone else's imagination - that is Love. Also, what amazes me that we are able to create - the purest form of all, a soul. A life. What a miraculous Globe we live in!

A practical man at times may find it impractical but mother may disagrees because mother and a practical man have created their own world with in with Beliefs and Love.

Marriage those go through the divorces only when the relationship has NOT reached "soul to soul" connection (real thing), if divorce happens it could have been due to virtual things such as money, body, behavior, status etc. and yes, I have observed that India is different where wife will do anything for her husband because in India people often live in the 'Real World' but unknowingly. In Western side of the Globe, the divorces are common because they are living in the virtual world. Virtual world is fragile and things can break apart in one's life but in real world the relationships lasts a lifetime; until the soul leaves the body.

Let me explain one more in things on Virtual World. When a bike/car has been of some special sentimental value for one for any reason, then I say, one has put into so much belief (real) in that virtual product that it becomes real thing. Let me take an example of a stone found near the river banks that has shape of God Shankarji; you take that stone put it in your puja ghar/sacred place/temple and start worshiping - this is an example of that belief (real thing - that you can not see or touch but feel it) has turned that mere stone into God for you. (I have seen my family doing it and now I realize the potential answer in it; it has been a question for me for all along my life.)

Belief is very powerful and Now I believe that if a Stone can be turned into God, Human can certainly be made a human again and humanity will automatically return.Belief, Love and Respect (all can not be seen or touched but these can be felt - hence its a real thing).

Imagination is real but when someone creates a product with that imagination - he using the real thing (imagination) and creating a virtual product out of it. Virtual things don't have souls, they can't live forever. Virtual things age, grow old and die or should I say, they never live. They can hardly give you happiness although can experience you 'the pleasure' that may seem like a happiness. But pleasure seems to die and you need to keep repeating if you wish to experience. Hence it is very important to understand the two worlds and recognize them, take a journey of self discovery to feel real happiness and peace.  

People are very reluctant to change and I say one shall never change forcefully and there is no need to change but to understand it and align ourselves with it. If you feel unhappy at times, I say you are changed right now due to the pull from virtual world and need to go back to "being self" again. 

Once you are self, you shall experience the real happiness, Joy. Once you are happy - your presence will bring happiness around. Although you can not make anyone happy unless he/she is willing to be. Its just frequency of thoughts created from your heart and mind will make all the difference. It’s a slow process so you can not expect results in days or months- it may take years to finally come. And mind it, nothing will change, you shall work in the place you are right now but I guarantee that you will feel happiness and peace within, a life will be beautiful again but only after understanding your own self and coming to a state of equilibrium with surrounding. Also recognition of real and virtual world/things is very important, once you recognize it - I'm sure you should be able to balance it.

Real happiness is not a pursuit although pleasures are! You are happy or you are not. It is a state. You don't try to be happy,there is no efforts required to be happy - If you putting efforts in searching so, you are going the wrong path...No spiritual meditation can help here, it is a natural state and you don't need to be any different to experience the Real feelings. You are good as you are right now. You may not like the real person within you (with all the negative energies and qualities you may possess) and would like to be different personality in this virtual world just to be so called successful but let me assure the REAL you, shall fit right in this Nature. There is no need to fear. Look around the in the nature - so many creature that live harmoniously and bring the synergies together, move forward and make this Globe worth living in; Its Heaven right here, right now. Imagine if all fingers were made of exact same size, we could not have been able to use our palm as we can do it today. Hence I say that diversity is beautiful things on this Globe and you are one unique and special being playing a key role in that diversity.

"The body is on the lease for a life span, the Great Soul lives on forever..."

Love (a path to self discovery)

Love is one the most complex emotion of human life when looked from virtual world and one the simplest emotion if you are looking from the real world; it has so many forms that I think even a several books on this topic may not be enough. Love for me, mean and brings a different perspective.

Love can never die; it can only grow with time!!! Love is natural feeling of a human. I believe human is naturally built to be self-extreme complex creature. I’ll explain this with example (#1) below So, in love you don't do anything for anyone but all for your own “Self”; hence in love you don’t have any expectations from anyone and if love is true you will never even feel the need of others to acknowledge it. It’s is beautiful world that you build within.

So how does other person know your love? By natural way to communicate using silence, the body language. Some research companies claim that about 80% of communication happens via using body parts and 20% by spoken language (verbal). ; Silence can speak and it can communicate beyond the languages can! Your eyes can speak, a touch can be felt and remembered for a lifetime. Love is that powerful that person may be 10000 miles away, love can bring him so close instantly that you can feel him – just by closing you eyes. The distance is not measured in miles but it is in heartbeats. In a moment of love your heartbeat may seem so long at times that it may feel that you won’t be able to have another one in this lifetime. The heart throbs so much that at times it feels that it will jump out of your body at any time, the voice can get choked up so much that air cannot go in; the tears may keep falling from eyes but your heart may not feel the cry. You may be sitting a crowed place but your world will have only you and your lover. Your eyes may be open but you won’t be able to see anything. You may be walking but dreaming at all times in the deep sleep where no one can disturb you. In love you can go the distance for days and it may feel a heartbeat away that you are ready to do it at any moment. It will feel that it is worth doing it. And yes, I call that a “real world”… because for me feeling is what we are here to enjoy that is the truth for me. Rest everything is virtual. In love you can certainly see real world and virtual world hence the steps that you take in love is out of the line with respect to the laws defined by man made virtual world. Love is irrational and you may not find any logical reasons on the actions you take that are generated out of love… Hence at times its said that “everything is fair in love and war” - but its too harsh to link War and Love; Love is harmless to everyone around (including self) hence this quote might need to be revisited. There is nothing to compare in Love, it is something that can reach any height at anytime. Love is beyond imaginations.

It is an emotion that creates a feeling where you stand all alone to take upon the world even if it means to lose self for it. Love is an invisible power of bonding when you 'let go' to let it fly; it remains with you forever without any force. Yes, love is nothing that you can ever define in words.

Love is one of the major fundamental of having a balanced mindset and it is one of the fundamental of concept of Globezen.

To love is a journey of self discovery - the actions you may take in love are very irrational and your mind can not comprehend it because usually there is nothing that benefits you in material/virtual world if you are truly in Love - It usually takes a shape of selfless personality and at that point nothing that one would not do to make himself happy even it means to let go the most important thing/person in his life just to live with a thought that it is the best thing to do for the person that one loves could be the closest thing/person you may want - just by one thought - that it may help little bit to whom you love. In love you win in real world by making a clear choice to lose in the virtual (man-made) world.But when you let go someone to be self, you “know” in your deepest part of your heart that she/he will come back if I truly love. Hence I wrote a quote

“Discover self to be selfless eventually to get everything for oneself. Life is beautifully twisted.”

True love can only happen when you two persons are being “self”. If anyone tries to mimic someone else to impress, that is not love. In order bond with love – you need to be self. If you can’t be self, you won’t feel love or happiness. Don't compare love in materialistic world... you will never get a rational answer. But its natural and its real. It will make you happy even though you don’t have any money.

To understand true love, one must discover self and will have to become selfless in this Journey. Love is not something that gives you pleasure but its something that brings happiness even when you are loosing all you have... may be forever... if you truly love, one shall do it with smile. After all you are doing for your own self/ your heart. Love has many forms not just lovers, husband wife but I can love a stone/article/God/Pet/kid/Son/grandson and so on… or anything. It can give you Godly feeling... Human is a complex Machine...

Let me explain with an example (example #1) - Let me as ask simple question to you.

If your son is sick and you are taking care of him - who are you doing this for?

If your answer is that I'm doing it for my Son; I'm taking care of him. I think perhaps you concluded in hurry, I don't agree with it; we have to go little deeper to understand the real reason, deep in your heart you are doing for your own self because if you don't
do this; You can not concentrate on anything that you normally do; your heart is feeling the pain of your own Son, you will not feel good with in your own self, your soul and mind will not be at peace until you go, see your Son and take care of him until he back in good health. So in fact, you are taking care of your own self and this process your Son is getting benefited. This is the beauty of love between father/mother and Son; and that is how Love is; it is irrational for the virtual world but invaluable in the real world; in this process of you might not be able to sleep or eat right or you may have a business deal to attent - you will let it go even it means a great financial loss. So in Love you recognize the true real world and the virtual world. Real world is filled with real feelings; amazing emotions; Hence love is a journey of Self discovery - this is how it is.

Hence I say human is naturally a self-extreme beautiful creature.

There is nothing to compare and It usually takes a shape of selfless personality and at that point nothing that one would not do to make himself happy even it means to let go the most important thing/person in his life just to live with a thought that its the best thing to do for the person that one loves...It has many forms...ultimate sacrifice is to let go..

BTW - I missed to mention – that possession and love are different, when you posses then the duties and responsibilities come; once you perform the duties and responsibilities then the expectations come and if not met you feel stressed or enraged- in Love you keep on doing for your own "self"... even though your actions may show to third person that you are working ONLY for someone else and not for you!!! In fact - it is not true. It may very well show that you are destroying yourself in the process if you compare in the materialistic/virtual world…

Hope for tomorrow OR Happiness Today!

Objective/Intention: To bring life in Today and live in present!!! Now! Tomorrow never comes or dies... But hope is what makes your today worth living - then it is the way to go...

I don't know tomorrow and hence don't wish to expect much from it. Not literally but in concept. Do not expect much from future, live in today - if you know and master the skill/formula to create "today" beautiful - then "know" it NOW, that your "tomorrow" will be nothing but beautiful.." These are my person thoughts and I know they are bit radical in natural ways.

Hope is a concept that creates a psychological state of mind to generate a feeling of passive expectations for the better future/positive outcome that one desires. It’s the expected state of one’s life in the future that he/she is longing for. It is the virtuality that human hangs on…Future is unknown to every human being but then too this concept created to give you energy to contribute in present just by believing in that there is better tomorrow. Hope is basically dependent on things that are usually beyond your immediate control. For example weather- if you are a farmer you would hope for a good rainfall. You can contribute towards the hopeful days ahead but can not control it fully. So we need to acknowledge that with hope there are many other factors come in play that one usually doesn’t control.

Lets take a look - Today is yesterday’s tomorrow, I meant to say that yesterday you were hoping to have a better tomorrow and that day has come i.e. “Today”. So when is tomorrow coming? Never! You have to consider today as yesterday’s tomorrow in order to be a happy. Take a day at a time, don’t think about 10 years down the lane – think about how can I make this today beautiful? Think that there is no tomorrow and I may not live to see another day! I don’t mean to be pessimistic about it but it’s a possibility so let’s not fool ourselves. This can motivate us look at today in order to evaluate if we are doing all things possible that we are suppose to do. The correct answers will come automatically. How can I live in today? What should I do today that will make me happy? Live your dreams today, because tomorrow never comes or dies but you have finite time to live, a lifespan of most 100 years. And just to bring a perspective to it, in fact that is just a blink of an eye if you consider this Nature around you, you are tiny and beautiful creature… You are the lucky one who came here with biggest and smartest mind to feel and experience this beautiful life. But if hope that makes you happy today – there is nothing wrong to continue to hope…but don’t lose your today for the hope of tomorrow. 

Hope is needed when one is lacking something today that one is expecting or desire to have tomorrow. So can I say that he is not fully enjoying his life? Or he needs tomorrow to live his life that he/she desires? Or he/she could be happier today if they knew that there is no better tomorrow – This is what we have – the present, a gift.

Hence I say be happy today, live your dreams that you had it yesterday, and you won’t need to rely on hope or tomorrow. Take one day at time. Live every moment to fullest that is what makes this life worth living. Every moment is so beautiful, it’s unique and special – it’s ready to give you a feeling that you are here to enjoy – don’t turn it down for hope. It is here to make you happy today just grab it and live it. It has got wonders within, you can create beautiful World in it today, and you won’t need tomorrow. I defer from the preaching of Buddha here.  Life is beautiful and there is nothing called suffering; it is just an experience that creates a feeling within you, feel it. Tougher the experience, greater the wisdom and knowledge achieved. Nothing goes waste in this life if you know how to pass on…

 To be happy you don’t need money, Money is required and essential to live life and take care of daily needs. But it’s proven for thousands of years that happiness and money are not linked at all. Consider thinking about Mahavira, Goutam Buddha, Asoka, Carnegie, Warren Buffet and Bill Gates; all were/are one of the wealthiest persons but at the end realized that money does not play any role in order to be happy, in fact it makes the path more treacherous/difficult to reach state of happiness if you have more money than you need.

If you are really enjoying your today and got what you desired yesterday (in the past) then hope may not play a key role. If you know how to be happy today then tomorrow is going to be beautiful. Bring life in present than longing for a better tomorrow. Today is beautiful, don't trade it for tomorrow.

Ego - Hurts you more than others...

Ego is a feeling within one when the mind is stuck to achieve a desired state/action by asking or forcing others to perform activities to achieve that desired state/action.

Self respect and Ego has a very thin line between them– the major difference between the two that when you are respecting SELF you shall not expect anyone to do anything for you and mean no harm, but in Ego you expect things to be done by others, just the way you want it. Until those activities are not done you shall not feel self…

When you have an Ego going, you start with “He/she/they (others) must do this otherwise it is not going to good for them” – in reality it is not true. It hurts you more than it hurt others.

In this process you are trying to control someone with force and you have already expressed your stand, your feelings to others and the action they are suppose to take. The problem arise when other person realizes it and takes a stand for his self respect or may be an ego within themselves. At this time “the work” that was suppose to be done is never done; and probably the priorities of both parties have shifted to show others that they stand correct/right. If both are right on their stand, then who is? Probably none of them – because there is no right and wrong – it is all relative.

Also you don’t have to compromise – I would say build the relationship and resolve a matter is by having confrontations and reaching to an agreement. This process will build the healthy and strong relationship. In compromising situation, both do not get what they desired, but when you confront - you are in problem solving state, creating new possibilities where both parties may get to better state than they desired. So in a marriage relationship – between husband and wife, I would suggest not to be afraid having a confrontation every so often on small things, but then GET IT SETTLED before you hit the bed!!! Talk and express your feelings to each other. Unless settled; DON”T SLEEP!!! As you settle it - you just put a knot on the ropes that each of you carry in your life. It’s a slow process – so go slow…You shall emerge stronger and happier at the end but don’t think of tomorrow – Life is all about today!!!

To get back to the topic, They get into the tussle of who is going to bow down first. Because their outer feelings are expressed to others and now they are no more SELF. As the time is passing and both of them are firm in their position – they are parting away from their self (real world within) – they no longer feel happy internally, anger and sadness grows within (real world) them but in outer/virtual world they still show that they are strong and are right. Then you will need 3rd person/body to come and work as mediator to resolve the simple matter. Ego is a feeling, a state of mind – where a person looses self and feels lost, sad and out of control.

This process of “Ego” hurts so much that one looses the state of equilibrium of their mind and soul, peace is nowhere to be found within. Very pathetic situation to be in; and slowly guilt starts to build in. I say – guilt is good, it’s a learned position- in this process your own self has understood the right thing to do, the incorrect position that you have taken is known now and – it’s a path towards healing and being self – towards the state of equilibrium of mind and soul.. guilt will rise within so much that one shall not be able to live within his own self; he starts self talks, all the right things will come out. Ego will evaporate; and Self will reappear – peace and happiness can be felt; a state of equilibrium of mind and soul.

So please think, before you take a stand with Ego – It is going to hurt you more inside than anyone else outside that you may think, and longer it takes to overcome the Ego, tougher it gets to recover. Many relationships are broken due to Ego and believe me, relationship is the most important thing in your life…It’s the fuel for your life; It generates emotions within you. Best relationship is with God – because He is the one who is always listening and you are the one doing all the talks!!! Prayer is one example.

But then during that time, you lost your time where you could be happy – that time is never coming back!!! That is irreversible one way change. You are here to live a life, how you live it - Its up to you!!!

Human life and Illusion

Today's human is living in a virtual world that he/she happens to believe that it’s real. From my perspective we all live a very virtual world - Virtual world is that is man made, using belief systems. The life is running with a perfect illusion where human is thinking that if he/she does not participate in the race (to nowhere) - he shall not survive, so its now called - survival instinct’s or the one who is feels like he/she is doing better than others - proudly calls survival of the fittest. Let me try to explain the beautiful illusion of life with a simple example -

Have you seen a hamster in a wheel? Click here to see

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hM3jzlyNIpc&feature=player_embedded

As soon as the hamster is put inside the wheel, he start running. He thinks he is going somewhere, to reach there (where he still does not know = ?)…In order to get there (?) quicker, he tries to run faster…the wheel starts running faster too. At this time hamster has no idea that he is powering the wheel... hamster picks up the pace, putting all his energy to it...he keeps running... until he is thrown out by the same pace of the wheel that he generated by powering the wheel, OR you take the hamster out of the wheel or the wheel breaks down.

But if both things are not done, after running a lot hamster eventually gets tired and then he slows down by himself. But to his surprise at this time the wheel has slowed down too, he feels in control but mind it, the hamster still thinks that it’s the wheel that has slowed down and not himself. It’s the illusion that hamster has in his mind, that someone else is driving the wheel and he needs to catch else he will suffer... That’s virtual world I was talking about.. An illusionary world…But the FACT remains that hamster is powering the wheel..

So what counts in this example is to understand that "illusion" and grow our mind accordingly..., “A grown up - mindset” – one who can understand this phenomenon… We can take this analogy and use it with our life too… if we run faster in this life...Life can go as fast you can drive it... There is no limit... until it outpaces you.

In order to understand that mindset, Put yourself in the 'hamster's position' and imagine the wheel as 'the virtual world' that you are living in... On this Globe, Just like you there are 8 Billion (population of this Globe) hamsters and one illusionary circle of life that we are trying to climb... No pun/harm intended.

Progress of Human kind?

In this 21st century human has transformed the World claiming to have made a significant progress (man made world, a virtual world for me). We can fly to moon and built a space stations, satellites that can guide us and enable air and ground travel, sonic technology, aviation, information technologies, computers that are empowering almost everything from home to businesses and wars… Human brain is working to control almost everything around to make his life easier and comfortable. A few of us making those inventions and most of us are enjoying the benefit from them – so as we think and believe that we are benefiting from it but I’m not sure how true this is…

I do pose a very signification questions though – Is this a really a progress of human kind? Or are we going backwards? Are we here to live where our mind and soul feels restless day after day – people are living a chaotic life in their mind but the body experiences comfort of air conditioning… although the Soul is no more at peace… everyone wants more and more and they have almost completely forgotten the life or life’s purpose…everyone here wants to be somebody else, has completely forgotten the self… always wish to buy more, make more money to get bit more that someone else has… everyone wants to be number one; feels like we are in a race in this virtual world of nowhere… It’s become the norm and universal truth that whoever makes more money is a good, respected person and lives a better life… I strongly oppose this idea. Life is not about just earning money. Money is important to take care of the necessary expenses but it’s not equivalent or a free card to a lovely/heavenly life… In fact more money may degrade the overall life of a human; just to remind that extreme of anything is bad. Balance is a key.

I think everyone needs to ask a question – “then what?” – Once you get what you crave for... “Then what”? Would you not want something else? Once you get that as well – “then what?” – How long would you do that? Until you die? If this is what is going on your life…Look at yourself – you are never living the life you are here to enjoy... you are never enjoying what you have? Or what you yourself wanted once? Because once you get that – you are on to something else that is new and latest… it’s a pathetic situation to be in as a human – who has the biggest brain of all animal species on this Globe...In such situations mind and soul are not in the state of equilibrium and hence happiness can never be experienced…Is this a progress of a human kind?

I don’t have to go anywhere to understand this phenomenon as stated above, I can look at myself. When I was 15 year old kid, I used to see my father and brother in laws who had good job and he earned enough to support his family well. I was always worried and wished – Could I ever get a good enough job that pays well and hopefully I could do the same? Then I dreamed of having a good car and small house in a good place and loving family – I did not ask of anything more… that was my happiness; fortunately with everyone’s Grace – I have more than I ever dreamed – I’m very fortunate. So today when I feel of wanting more I just go back 15 years back in life and think about the day and what would have dreamt about of having…if the answers comes out to be that I have that already – I feel very accomplished, fulfilling, joyous, satisfactory and happy. Or just think about the a family who is living in the war zone – or how my forefathers must have lived during the fight of independence – I start appreciating what I have and not what I’ll have… This works wonders… and for me – this is the progress of mind…and human kind; with this I feel at a state of equilibrium, it calms down the restlessness, creates synergies and harmony with in myself; mind and soul rests in peace – It doesn’t mean that I don’t have dreams – but those are just visions and I do feel happy about it but don’t crave for it and will work hard to achieve it without any harm to anyone, by respecting everything around me. I’ll make mistakes and I’ll try to learn from it. I’m just a human.

Today human’s basic needs are long forgotten, human is just living of the greed now… the hunger of stomach is no more a main concern, it has been converted into a hunger of a brain now… and I don’t think that this Globe is built to fulfill the brain’s hunger of every one of us. This globe has enough resources to fulfill everyone’s need but not the greed. When we are greedy, we are actually snatching away Globe’s resources required for fulfilling the basic needs for our future generations… So, live for the needs and not for the greed.

Do people really slow down to think even a bit about their life in this world? Or they are so occupied in the materialist/virtual or a man made world that they just forget about the real or God created world. The life that invisible powerful soul powers within us and mind experiences…

With so much innovation and technological progress that we claim ourselves, let me tell you one thing - since the inception of human life on this globe, the basic emotions of the human have NOT been changed – the rage, anger, love, kindness, happiness, sad, sorrow, joy such basic emotions of human kind have not changed a bit – we must have given various names of those emotions now to capitalize it but basic human is still the same – nothing much has changed. We still cry when we feel sad and exactly same way we would have done thousands of years ago and when we cry the tears come out and our heart feels the pain and the cleansing act starts once cry begins… When we feel happy our heart becomes joyous and we smile or laugh depending on situations – we love the same… we even reproduce the same way that was done thousands of years ago… so for a human what has change internally – NOTHING. So basic emotions have not changed, but as we advance in the technological world in this 21st century – one thing sure has changed – the frequency of feeling such emotions have increased in this fast paced world, and I believe humans experience negative emotions much frequently and longer than it used  to be in the past since we just created so many reasons for it. Is this a progress of a human kind?

Take an example of man who used to live in a village 3000 years ago – he lived off the land used cattle/horses for transportation – and farming for food – His typical day could have been spending a day at farm, farming – from dawn to dusk and then spending time with family with no electricity – so only mode of entertainment was to chat/talk/dance with family/community members. Simple life but I’m sure he did have cravings and must have dreamed of living like a king – so the thought process of being King must have troubled him and must have posed that as a problem – the intensity of this problem is something to keep a note of for now…and I’m sure he must have had similar more thoughts such as having a stronger or a colorful horse, bigger hut, more farm land etc issues or items for cravings could have been there… but the life had a simple routine and had less numbers of materialistic items to crave for…now in 21st century we have so many things to crave for that human cannot stop craving unless he curbs his brain – although nowadays media plays a essential role to keep reminding you to posses something that will keep you linked with the virtual world. So where is the progress from 3000 year ago? We are just becoming more unhappy even though we are having longer lifespan - better awareness and health care? Time spent on this earth of human is becoming more painful for their mind and soul day after day? So where is the progress for good? I see pain and suffering if people are unable to discover the self....

World had become smaller with aviation technology, I can fly to across the Globe in less than 14 hours. We have come to known that world is very diverse and there is so much that you can’t possibly experience all even if you want to, irrespective of how much money you have; it does not matter – we all must understand that everyone is unique and special. Everything needs to be respected – no need to accept if you don’t like it. Respect and accept are two different things.

The hunger of stomach that God created is to be satisfied twice a day but the hunger of brain generated by human is infinite and occurs every minute/moment and one can’t satisfy it. To fulfill stomach needs (hunger), one needs food. One can’t eat more than his satiety/appetite allow at a given time but to fulfill brain’s greed there is no limit – Brain’s hunger just need a thought and you shall crave for materialistic thing – and from that point onwards your mind and soul goes restless until you get it. Once you get it you already have another thought waiting for you crave for more… More, more and more should no more be the way of life…

As a human we call ourselves special species – but how are we superiors from the other animals? I think we are fooling ourselves with this belief – animals on this Globe are living with their needs and not with greed – but human are basically inferior and deteriorating faster as we learn to live of the greed and not the needs. Human just need to slow down and need to observe the nature around. Nature has so much diversity and it teaches us so much with examples but we just tend to ignore…Wake up human!!! Wake up!!! Before it’s too late!!!

We are faced with Global issues such as terrorism, hunger, scarcity, wars – let’s respect everyone’s beliefs. Beliefs are man-made, a perceived truth and every human has it – please understand the reasons of such beliefs and respect the reasons for the beliefs itself if it’s difficult to respect individuals. But understand one thing that dignity and respect of others is everything for them, keeping it yourself – does not add any value to you.

Life is powered by invisible soul – just think for a moment that this soul can leave your body anytime… Body is on the lease for the lifespan only. All can vanish in a fraction of a second…I’m writing this is not to scare you but bring the energy in you to live a life to the fullest, be self. Create a mindset, you have choice – you are here to live – how you live it’s up to you… sit down and think about yourself and take a journey of self discovery… life will make sense…mind will grow – you shall feel peace and happiness…

We really want to make progress – Take a journey of self discovery... discover self...Create synergies among ourselves, stop wars and live harmoniously. Develop humanity as the biggest belief system. Let’s be self. Understand the dark spots/negative energy of inner self and learn to overcome them – try to learn to live by the needs; make yourself happy by reaching to a state of equilibrium. It’s all in the mind – develop the mindset to be Global. Respect everything around – if you want to live a fulfilling, satisfying life – slow down.

Belief, Love and Respect is all one needs to create a Global Mindset and to live a happy, balanced and successful life.

Being Self or Selfish?

Living the life the way you want is not selfish, this is just being self.
Being “Self” ("inner self") is the best way to lead a life that will certainly bring all the good things in oneself, this is how we are wired, created.

Take any example of whoever has succeeded in any area, they have always been Self. If anyone who creates or invents in this world, he is just being self. They have chosen the path that was never travelled by anyone. So as one goes on the path never travelled/unknown, during the initial period of one’s choice, people around will always be skeptical (because that is out of the accepted belief system), the doubts will be raised by others but as one is being self, his own beliefs will bring actions. There is no fear when one is being self. Only way to achieve happiness is being self. To find true love can only happen when you are truly being self. Self needs to be discovered as you grow. It’s the real world that you should strive to live within. God lives within but one hardly looks inside of him. Human mind when being self is Godly. It can create. It is the Power of one. God is One. Take a Journey of Self Discovery. I guarantee that you will appreciate everything around you once you know your “inner self”

Selfish is to ask someone else to live the way you want them to live.
Controlling life of others for your own wishes is selfish.
One can assume that Selfish person might have not taken the Journey of Self discovery and hardly knows what he/she is. Selfish will show anger, force and rage in situations when loses control.
To force your beliefs on to others is selfish.
To ask someone to follow your beliefs with conditions is selfish.
Misguiding others for your own greed is selfish.
Asking someone else to love you exactly the way you love them is Selfish; Real true love is only possible only when people are just being self.
Disrespect to everything around you for your greed is selfish.
Greed is selfish. Need is self.

Live for the needs, not for the greed.

Note this only applies to grown up mind, an adult. Kids do need directions and guidance from others until they can develop a mind of their own. Parents can provide all the tools available to kids and let him choose what is kid really interested in, once he decides on it, encourage him.

Living a life what others force upon you will never bring the best out of you. As one carry on the life, chosen by others, will creates the environment where one may feel emptiness, unsuccessful even though he might have gained financial success in that profession. So be self. Discovering self is a beautiful Journey. Self is your core, is to find out what you really are?

What is "Self"? (inner self)

Self is the inner core, conscious, an invisible watchman inside you that keeps track of all things that you do and think. A Godly or a Devil form? Self is what you truly are. It is a matter research by many scholars but yet to be defined. It is one to know and feel hence no one else can see it. I think that is why no one can figure it out. Isn’t that beautifully amazing? 

“Self” has some dark spots and some absolutely bright spots. (fig 1) Growing up should mean that we come to understand those dark spots to curb, overcome them – Those are animal instincts that can generate negative energy such as anger, hate, disgust, greed, jealousy – and the bright spots is the positive energy and will create Godly state – some of the states are forgiveness, love, respect, Joy, Happiness, patience, Kindness, caring, Compassion, Fun, laugh, confidence, knowledge, wisdom etc. Those who we call Saints, Mahatma, Guru, Swami, and God (in the outer World – because I believe “God lives within”) has basically mastered the skills to overcome those dark spots/negative energy as soon as they realize its desire to come out through this body.

Hence folks say one needs to meditate to realize those bright spots…When your body is at peace, it helps to concentrate to connect to your “Self” – To understand those bright spots, to experience them – feel happiness. Although this is nothing but just being “self” or trying to be “self”. Hence I call a Journey of Self discovery is Meditation. It’s all in the mind, the mindset can be developed so much that it can distinguish these differences and take appropriate decision to choose the “right thing to do”. I believe if one can control the mind of his own, he can achieve the impossible…If you learn enough you can meditate without keeping your body still, you can meditate when doing chores at any place. The journey of Self discovery is meditation - Zazen or Zen. I have redefined meditation in my own terms, a state when I reach into deep thoughts while trying to connect with my "Self", I loose the track of surrounding and start appreciating everything around me, my mind and soul is awakened, irrespective of what my body or brain is doing, I start scratching the true meaning of life - I'm meditating, Zen, this is one of the ways, I pray to God.

When you see a kid happy, sad, excited, joyful, playful, making faces, dancing on the road, jumping in the shop – his heart is of his own, he is being his own “self”… he is experiencing a real core of him. Most of you must have experienced it. But as he grows and experiences the Virtual world by the time he is in Adulthood he is forgotten the real world completely. Now after spending almost all of his life fulfilling all his materialistic desires of life that lived, one thinks back and finds vast emptiness in them – why? Because he never lived in real world, he did not remain “self” his mind and soul were never at peace and at that stage – If this comes to be true, one is totally unsatisfied and death looms at his door step but now one wants to live more? For what?

Should we all adults behave as a Kid? –absolutely no! But sure take a moment in front of the mirror in your bathroom and act as a Kid. If you are with your kids, be a Kid again...These things are just like meditation – you want to “self”…

So wake up and live your life the way you want it, be self. It will be very satisfying, you will take birth every day as you wake from your sleep, it will a new day in your life. You will never feel the fear from death because it just becomes your daily routine when you live your life which is so satisfying, you will never need another day to live your life. You will live every moment. You will experience real happiness. Every moment is Godly, experience it, enjoy it, you can extract that the knowledge and wisdom out of it – spread the wisdom around you. Severe the experience, better the wisdom achieved…

Today, most of the humans are not “being self” anymore. As one grows from being kid, teen to Adult, he has mastered one skill very effectively – which is to copy, compare, compete…trying be number one…In this race of nowhere – he conveniently or is forced to forget the ”self” and converts into something selfish that needs to be better than others…And this starts at very early age of human when he is being part of existing belief systems and he is well trained as turns into an adult. He is trying to be number one. Few wants to look, live just like some rock or a film star, business tycoon or any famous figure hero. But those people usually forget that TV star is being paid for not being self when they are on the screen… That is basically unreal/phony and meant just to entertain. But some people and teens/kids assume that is possible and wish to mimic it. Smoking/Drinking shown on the TV leads to this behavior in teens and it is proven in research. One is always thinking the “grass is greener on the other side”. By understanding this, some smart people have started showing off, advertising – that people look and started copying… In the whole process – One’s self is lost and transformation of self to somebody else begins. This happens in very early age nowadays with TV advertisement or market hoardings..mindsets and beliefs are changed, brain washed to make one someone else that will give profits to some smart people…Those tricky advertisers say that “People have a choice” and I agree with it but those advertisers know it very well the quality of human to “copy” and mimic, hence we are compared to “monkeys” as our forefathers – this quality exists in them too.

Why? One needs to be someone else? Be as you are, however it is…You are unique and special – No need to compare, you have something for everyone in you. If you want to achieve anything, just think what you want to achieve and be self, don’t look around you who is in the race, who you need to leave behind or force down to come up on the top. You try to reach to your goals irrespective of what others are really trying to do… and once you know your “inner self”, one learns to respect everything around and one shall not hurt while achieving the desired goals…One shall attain peace, synergies and harmony…

Being someone else is ruining the chances for your own success. It’s not going to make you happy but will put you into some virtual world that will hardly give any satisfaction. Creativity comes from being self. Happiness lives within. If you can’t be self, you can’t be happy. Being self is very fulfilling, very satisfying and a light state. Truth will always come out when you are self and places you in a lighter state. Your conscious will always feel at home. You can feel awakened and lightened. Being self, you will not hurt people. Being self will give you an ability/empower to understand. Being self will keep your mind and soul at peace. Being self will keep you in a state of happiness, joy.

Journey of Self Discovery-Meditation(Art and science)

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         
ANXIETY & STRESS IS taking toll on our lives in the form of psychosomatic illness, which can range from Psychoneuroses, Depression to illnesses like Gastric ulcers, stress induced Asthma, Hypertension etc. These are all state of mind that impacts the body eventually if you can't control your mind, believe me there is nothing that you don't have to cure such illness just by growing your mind, all things will disappear. Belief, Love and Respect is all you need to create a Global Mindset and to live a happy, balanced and successful life.

MEDITATION IS ONE GOOD ANSWER to handle these perpetual stimulations from the outside world. Meditation is an Art & Science which helps one relax from tensions & also harness mental faculties by concentration. I am not touching the art part which most of us know. To understand the science behind this ancient practice, Brain waves can be used as an instrument.

Beta predominates during wakeful state Beta predominates during wakeful state normally, brain produces four types of waves as measured by EEG (Electroencephalogram) –

0. beta (14-30 HZ) - Beta predominates during wakeful state
0. alpha (8-13 HZ) - Alpha during relaxation state
0. delta (4-7 HZ)  - Delta during mild meditation
0. Theta (<4 HZ)  - Theta during deep meditation. 

Delta waves produce large quantities of growth & healing factors or hormones in the body. Theta waves accelerates learning & healing processes initiated by delta. At a given time, a brain cell may be producing alpha/ beta/ delta / theta waves.......some in alpha, some in theta etc but simultaneously. The ability of the brain to enter & maintain favorable frequencies will determine one's health on a long term.

Theta waves are concerned with subconscious state, a state between wakeful & being unconscious. All the emotions, expressions, memories, aspirations & suppressed desires are held in this state by humans. Activating these theta waves can bring all these to surface or the conscious state, wherein one's deep painful experiences......suppressed desires can be brought to one's attention. These can put deep insight into one's personality & associated mental problems. Binaural beats can induce a theta state......likewise chanting mantras (spiritual meditation) have the same effect.

In contrast, Delta waves are produced during sleep or relaxation. Sleep is a true & the best form of relaxation. Certain drugs can also produce this state but the effect lasts as long as the drug effect lasts like Sedatives & Hypnotics etc. Meditation can produce the same relaxation state but still intensely in awake state. Both delta & theta states can be attained during meditation. People who meditate regularly can go into delta & theta states even while doing a daily routine or work, which comes by practice. This is the same as saying ' walking / standing meditation'. Regular meditation can result in well being of the body & mind.

The perpetual stimulation of our senses from outside world causes overdose of beta state of consciousness. Brain finds difficult to switch back to the relaxation mode of alpha or lower frequencies. Meditation helps in restoring brain to switch to the relaxation mode of frequency & restore both mental & physical health on a long term. So slow down a bit in your life…Take a Journey of Self discovery, Mediation – Zazen or Zen. This will bring the best of oneself, one shall have the ability to make choices and work on what they believe in.

There are several techniques developed in this aspect to mention from Progressive Muscular Relaxation, Hypnotism, and Cognitive therapy, Thermal & Electromagnetic methods which are in use to diagnose & treat by relaxation.

Life Balance

“Life Balance” – What is it? Do we really know? How to achieve it?
I often see editorials about the work life balance. In these seminars or training, its often shown that its very important to keep a work-life balance to keep happy life. To achieve the balance what are basic things that we must know? There is a very simple rule to it - Although it is often easier said than done.

Live for the needs and not the greed.

What is balance?
It’s a state of equilibrium, is an ability to keep all things in proportionate to maintain the steady state.

How to balance?
To keep a balance one should be able to anticipate, judge the force that may impact the stable state (or mean position) and counter act it to continue to be in state of equilibrium.

What can help to keep balance?
Let me take a simple hypothetical example – Suppose I have given a task to walk on the hanging rope that is continuously moving every second. If I stop, I’ll be out of the game. Now to be a part of this game, I must keep balance – how can I achieve it?
I must remain fit, preferably lean and thin, keep my weight in control, keep a steady and consistent speed, focus, and concentrate on the task– so that I’ll be able to judge the rope movement to keep the balance and keep moving. If I pick up the pace, the risks of loosing balance increases although I move faster – but mind it if I become inconsistent with the speed, the risk is higher. If I slow down, being lazy, I put on weight; it will impact me to keep the balance.
Our life is exactly same as this game – we need to keep our desires, ambitions, lean and thin – measure and control them as they arise, keep all checks in place. Live for the needs and not the greed. Greed will make you fat, every addition of greed makes it tough for you to keep the life balance; If you lose the balance you lose all at once so don’t outpace yourself. Understand the illusions, by adding more than you need it basically hurting yourself than helping. One can certainly achieve all things you believe in, one has the Power, God lives within. One is me.

Life is a Journey so enjoy it as you travel because at the destination, the soul usually off-boards the Body.
Keep a balanced mindset – with Belief, Love and Respect. This will help find the synergies and will keep the life in harmony with nature and it will be much easier to keep ‘life balance”. Nature is built to provide the needs and not the greed.

-Globezen (a simple concept to life balance)

Only truth in this Globe is “a Birth”, “a Death”, “One's existence between birth and death=life” and “Nature” - During our existence (life)… feelings are REAL that our brain calculates and mind/soul feels… Rest everything is virtual.

Let me clear my point by giving an example… Your mind is like clay… you are the Moulder… your surrounding and YOU (only you) with your belief systems (a perceived truth) can play role mould a shape that can lead a life as per you moulded/created.. This shape is called MINDSET – hence mindset is everything…

Balanced mindset is the best way to lead your life…A perfect round shape…a balanced wheel so that your life can run smoothly… your life is riding on a wheel of mindset…mindset should have an ability to withstand the road bumps along the way but should remain in perfect round to carry on your life…and YOU and only you can keep that maintained… Hence I call happiness is a "State of Equilibrium of mind and soul"… But in case that mindset is out of shape (sad,angry), you can re-shape it…don’t forget its REAL properties.. it can be reused and reshaped as you like…it’s your choice… Now to access REAL feelings you have to develop the mind to access REAL world… and it cannot be found in the Virtual World that humans have created by making so called “progress” – our mind, heart and soul is developed enough (since birth) to make that distinction of real and virtual(false) feelings…Hence to access the true/real feeling you need to get to REALITY/Truth…that is - basic emotions of the human… Example: Observe any kid (or think about your childhood) – Kids are really happy, feeling the joy, sad etc. because they are living in real world… As we grew we left that real World behind and now lost the path to go back. We have come to live in a virtual world and trying to find the real happiness... and hence we not unable to feel happiness. To feel the happiness, you have to become a kid again...(at least in the mind) :) Let's grow our mind enough to balance between the virtual and real world. Until we learn to control mind and soul, we won't be able to feel the real feelings. Human mind and Soul is extremely powerful (God lives within.. so you can imagine), we just don’t know how to use them yet… If you go into the virtual world we are leaving behind the mind and soul but using brain and body… How can we expect to get real feelings from a virtual world? How can we call ourselves grown up and unable to realize this distinction?

God!! Give us strength to understand the magical power of our mind and soul.

So lets be self.. go on the journey of self discovery…Adapt the basics of human lives.. we can find synergies. We all can live in harmony… even by keeping our beliefs as is and grow with it by respecting everyone... just by developing our mindset… Create it Global Mindset...We all have the ability and power to do it..

Globezen
Local thought, Global Mindset.

God

God lives within.. to reach God one must leave oneself...be selfless.. This can only happen when man no longer exists…

God is one...He exists in everyone one of us.. .only few can see HIM... those who go on a Journey of ‘self discovery’ ... eventually becomes selfless by expanding their mind and soul – This will create a mindset...At this state – the Body, identity, existence does not count… A state of nothingness..A Black hole that can absorb any energy towards it... and at the same time One can enlighten people around Him - Just like Sun....with no expectations… Hence anywhere you see anyone doing anything without expectations in return… Bless yourself.. You are witnessing God via some body but to identify this you need to be state of equilibrium of your mind and soul - happiness...
One who is the most powerful .. May appear powerless...
most educated.. but may seem illiterate
Who knows all…may not show it so…
One who knows all complexities, would show only simplicity…
In short, He may appear in places you won’t ever imagine… in the most unexpected way…

God lives within...In God, I believe.

At this time - God's forms are believed to be coming from our belief systems - developed by Humans...Religions is one of the belief system and I respect ...

Extraordinary

I have thought about Hindu God such as Bramha, Vishnu, Laxmiji, Saraswatiji, Ram, Sita, Krishna, Arjuna, Mahavirji, Goutam Buddha, Jesus, King Asoka, Mohammad, Akbar, Gurunanak Devji, Shivaji Maharaj, Zhanzi ki Rani, Lincon, Washington, Sai baba, to Mahatma Gandhi.... I dare to redefine "Extraordinary"....

"An ordinary person, doing an ordinary job, recognized by many ordinary people is Extraordinary..."

My belief:
It is that simple... People will only recognize if it benefits them... You don't need to change anyone... You can go on doing what you think is "RIGHT"; Let everyone make the choice as you made it...Respect everyone else as you do to "yourself".

People transform ordinary people into Extraordinary... to Mahatma... to Saint.. to The God as the time passes and the story continues through Generations...through the Power each one of us have...It’s called "Belief" and ‘Faith”

Happiness and Pleasure

I define happiness as equilibrium state of mind and soul where I won't do anything else at this time other than what I'm doing...(i.e. writing this blog :) I understand the future goals but in order to accomplish those; one has to perform small actions at a given time. So while performing these actions -
brain might be working but mind is at peace...body might be moving but soul is at peace.. state of equilibrium...state of happiness... So we can conclude that those extraordinary individuals were happy souls.. They have done things that kept them at a state of equilibrium...happiness...It may seem a hardwork to third person but to him it was just an ordinary job that gave him happiness.. and he did it for himself.. inturn it did help others...and turned out to be true or valid....
But when you look back and consolidate all of them at once .. It may look HUGE accomplishment... hence I have created a definitions for "extraordinary" too...

So happiness is an equilibrium state of mind and soul..
One can ONLY achieve this state when
- they are acting on things they believe in (using belief system)
- there is no external force involved.... (by choice)

No one can make you happy.. if one can... take a look again.. you have a relationship with God... and God lives within... I'll leave up to you to explore more....

Pleasures..
One may be pleased for the time being after getting some materiaistic things or doing activities.. One can not pursue happiness although pleasures can be.. either one is happy or not..(its a "state" not an "activity") If one thinks that "if I can do this.. I'll be happy.." they most probably talking about the pleasures which is short lived ... because with pleasure you won't stop, the pursue will never end...until your soul leaves your body...but if you make a choice, the happiness will never leave your mind and soul....